Just another WordPress.com site

Dear Sage at 11 months


Dear Sage at 11 months,

The official countdown to one year has begun! The transition from baby to toddler is becoming more evident by the day. You have taken your first steps, are talking up a storm, and are a fully present member of our family with votes and opinions on all we do. Here are the things you love: riding on the bike with Daddy, going on runs in the Bob Stroller, people, playing in any kind of water, being carried on the Ergo, going on hikes, jumping into the pool, going fast, being tossed in the air, playing with rocks, sticking your hand in the toilet, crawling in cabinets, climbing things, going down the slide by yourself, unraveling toilet paper, putting choking hazards in your mouth, being tickled, being snuggled and most importantly discovering and enjoying the magical world around you.

Recently, when we were in the American Airlines Terminal at LAX, I took a deep breath, stopped thinking about all the germs on the floor found the perfect quiet little alcove so you could be free to explore. Unfortunately the alcove I found wasn’t really your idea of a interesting place to hang out. You instead choose to send Mommy’s germ radar through the roof by pushing, crawling, and clambering your way into the middle of the main walkway of the terminal. This is the walkway every traveler uses to get from the gates to the curb or from the curb to the gates. It goes without saying that there were hundreds of people zooming up and down past you in all directions and you just sat right in the middle of it all waving two handedly to everyone who walked past. This was a tad difficult for Mommy because you were touching, what felt like, everything walked on by half of Los Angeles. I was envisioning you coming down with some deathly illness a day after arriving on our vacation but so far you are still healthy! Most people were delighted to see you but there were a few grumpy travelers who I know were wondering, “why on earth would that lady let her baby sit right there in my way!” The good news is, parenting is a journey for us both and the more brave you get about exploring your world the more brave I get about choosing to disregard the looks and comments of others.

When you grew tired of the action on the passenger runway, you decided to head toward our gate and crawl from person to person hoping to pull yourself up right onto their laps (or hoping to have a bite of whatever they were eating). It was a little sad for me because it was the first time I had to pull you away from people who wanted to read their papers, or who didn’t seem very baby friendly. So far in your short life you have been blessed with people who love being around you so this was a tricky moment for us when I had to try and explain to you that, “that person just wants to be alone right now.”

Unfortunately, the unfriendly people didn’t stop there! When we got on the airplane the woman sitting next to us in first class said, “well… I certainly didn’t want to sit next to a baby!” Lucky for her she didn’t have to. I decided we didn’t need to spend five hours sitting next to her bad energy and as much as I wanted to prove a point, I had to let it go. So we switched seats and sat next to a very nice lady who was happy to smile and coo at you. Lucky for me and all the other members of the cabin, you were amazing. Shortly after we took off you fell asleep in my arms and I laid you down at my feet where you stayed for the next four hours. Only waking to nurse and then to fall right back asleep again.

Some of your special tricks at 11 months old include,

  • picking up any rectangle shaped object, putting it by your ear and saying “hi!”
  • Ambitiously crawling into the garage, putting your bike helmet on and pulling yourself up next to the bike begging Daddy to take you for a ride
  • Throwing all your left over meals on the floor and laughing about it
  • A big joyous belly laugh that we LOVE to hear
  • Crying every time you get locked strapped into your car seat
  • Saying “up”, “hi Dada”, “outside”
  • Taking 4 steps all by yourself!
  • Showing no interest in your toys but instead in exploring every nook and cranny of the world around you
  • Being a great eater! One of the dinners I was most proud of this month was watching you devour a meal of organic ham, cucumbers, brussels sprouts, green beans, multigrain bread with coconut oil and strawberries. You were the healthy version of the Very Hungry Caterpillar!

We are ending your 11th month and beginning your 12th month in Maui. I cannot believe my little baby is starting to walk, talk, and grow up. Someday when you are a Mommy you will know what I mean, but until you are a Mommy yourself I can only describe my feelings  as my heart being like a teeter-totter. Rocking back and forth between celebrating the child that you are becoming and aching for the baby you are leaving behind. My heart just aches with love for you my darling girl.

IMG_1440 IMG_1445 IMG_1442

ImageImageImage

Having your first bite of ice cream at Ono Gelato. They are the ice cream company that provided the dessert at our wedding.

Having your first bite of ice cream at Ono Gelato. They are the ice cream company that provided the dessert at our wedding.

IMG_9943

Here you are on the south side of Maui past Hana. This road is supposedly closed to tourist traffic but we decided to break the rules. It is Mommy’s favorite part of Maui. Rustic, wild, unspoiled beauty.

IMG_9939 IMG_9933

IMG_9899

Here you are at the pools of Ohe’o. These are seven fresh water pools that lead into the Ocean. The water was cold but you were SO tough!

IMG_9873

Daddy was doing a little rock climbing in and out of the water with you in tow. Good thing he knows what he’s doing!

IMG_9894 IMG_9884 IMG_9878

Leave a comment »

Dear Sage 10 months

(posted 2 weeks after your actual 10 month birthday!)

Dear Sage at 10 months

This month should be titled big words! In your 10th month you came alive with words and signs. In one short week a whole slew of words started pouring out of your mouth. Just about the same time you started signing “more”, “food”, and “all done”, you started saying the words that match! I imagine that the neurons responsible for word production clicked into place one night while you were sleeping! It really feels like an overnight occurrence! Here is the most current list of things you say and how you say them.

  • “More” sounds like “mawh”
  • all done sounds like  “ahh duh.”
  • dogs “deh deh”
  • balls “buh”
  • books “buh.” (the buh for book has a little air attached to the B sound)

This month we took a trip to San Francisco where we were so lucky to see our friends the Kubischtas again. As soon as you get a little bigger I have a feeling our family trips will involve you in some serious play with Zealand and Avery. I will never tire of talking to their Mommy Chelsea so I am looking forward to hours of play, play, play as we continue our family visits. I am hoping for a Mommy daughter backpacking trip with Chelsea and Avery. Maybe if I say it now it will come true! Look ahead to your year 7 blog and see if it happened!

We visited the Kubischtas for dinner in the Easy Bay and then stayed at a hotel for a few days in the city. You and Daddy ran all over the place while I attended the Learning and the Brain Conference. You soaked up the sights, noises, and city experiences. Of course, you loved every second of it. You exercised your social skills in the lobby of the hotel by sitting in the center of it and waving at everyone who walked by. They should have hired you. People were SO happy to see you! You had no problem keeping up with your Daddy on this trip. Lucky for us you love your carriers so you can sleep anywhere. Your flexibility, laid-back nature, and love for adventure make you the perfect travel companion.

This month marks your ability to consistently stand on your own starting from a seated position. I have a feeling your first steps are soon to follow. Every day the amount of time you balance in a standing position is growing and growing. I am practically holding my breath to see what happens next. You are also incredibly brave. You have no problem crawling to the top of any slide and sliding right down on your own. It is so funny. I adore this quality of yours and hope it stays. With the life we lead, being fearless will serve you well!

Another big event this month is that we moved to a new home. We left the apartment in San Clemente and moved to our new place in San Juan Capistrano. Our new home has more room for you to crawl around, a room for your toys and crib, and a backyard that we can play in. We have been working on the weekends and evenings to get the place ready to go and you have been very patient with us. I do have to admit though that trying to clean with you in the room is like raking leaves on a windy day. I put all the clothes in a drawer and you pull them all out again. I put books on a shelf and you pull them off again. You have a new love for opening and closing things and pulling things in and out of drawers, boxes, etc. You are one step behind us ready to undo all that has been done.

The most exciting part of this month is that Daddy has stopped working for 7 weeks to take care of you and to work on projects around the house. It’s so fun watching you two deepen your bond. He takes you on bike rides (you LOVE this), to Home Depot, the plumbing store, and Costco. You help him with his projects and you keep each other company. You adore him and believe me, the feeling is mutual.

We love you Sagey-poo.

IMG_1412

You are the most beautiful sight to wake up next to

MVI_0591

IMG_1389

You find fun in the simplest of things.

IMG_0551

You playing with Avery

IMG_0550

You, Zealand, and Avery on the jumping couch.

IMG_0547

IMG_0544

On the BART!

IMG_0534

Soaking up the city!

IMG_0527

Enjoying our hotel bed

IMG_0509

On the BART with Daddy on your way to have lunch with Duane

IMG_0505

China Town!

IMG_0498

Crawling up streets and just hanging out.

IMG_0475

Sharing some clam chowder with Daddy

IMG_0471

On the cable car

IMG_0462

You LOVE climbing up slides

IMG_0497IMG_0494

IMG_0454





IMG_0479

Error
This video doesn’t exist
IMG_0460
Error
This video doesn’t exist

IMG_1302

How we fall asleep at night. My very favorite thing in the whole world.

Leave a comment »